My Biography – 5 Violin Lessons
I was made to play violin because Sohee thought my academic grade was not a stellar one, so in order to go to a good college, (she thought) I should…
My Biography 4 – High School, College, and some time thereafter
Please note - I had more than a decade of physical, mental, sexual abuse when I was growing up. Although I do not go to too much details of abuse,…
My Biography 3 – early childhood abuses when I was in Korea
Warning: Although some of the description here far less then violent movies and horror movies, it still is unpleasant description of abuse. I omitted gross details of sexual grooming so…
My Biography 2 – How the family started
I have two siblings, both of whom are half-siblings. Eldest one is a son, he lived and died where my family lived. Second eldest one is half-sister. The third is…
My Biography – early childhood
When I was very young, I usually stayed at home alone. Actually, not alone. My grandmother, who was Father’s mother, would stay at home and work at something, very busily.…
Introduction, Summary, and Basics of Fairbairn’s Object Relation Psychology
Fairbairn 4 - Basics of Fairbairn and Object Relation Psychology Important Note: Please read the definitions at the end of article alongside the article content. Also, for those who are…
Why I was Late in Writing Article – Factors Hindering So Many People’s Good Work: Ever Increasing Noise Pollution, Fuel Consumption, Junk Food Consumption, and Similar Cultural Trend
The Motivational Triad and Fairbairnian psychology; these two frameworks are not panacea, but can explain so many destructive and addictive human behaviors and social phenomena at so many different levels (which is why I wrote the previous article). Addicted psyche tend not to look at these in calmly manner, instead it looks for next fad, next bigger things (bigger cars, bigger house, bigger sex related bodily organs, saltier, more sugar, more fat), newer, more intense stimulus in their lives – which also can be explained by Motivational Triad / Fairbairnian psychology. It seems turning this around is slow process, just like any public goods that has been built over time.
Why Freud abandoned his seduction theory? – Matters of Truth, Healing, and Countertransference
Ferenczi began to believe more and more strongly that the source of neurosis lay in sexual seductions suffered by children at the hands of those closest to them. This culminated in a paper, “Confusion of Tongues,”….that was, in many respects, the twin to Freud’s “The Aetiology of Hysteria." (p120 "Assault on Truth: Freud’s Suppression of the Seduction Theory" by Jeffrey Moussaieff Masson) Not just that, Ferenczi arrived to the same conclusion as Freud’s earliest thoughts: For example, he maintained (July 24, 1932) that the Oedipus complex could well be "the result of real acts on the part of adults, namely violent passions directed toward the child, who then develops a fixation, not from desire [as Freud maintained], but from fear. 'My mother and father will kill me if I don’t love them, and identify with their wishes.' " Ferenczi never dared show this diary to Freud. (p121 "Assault on Truth: Freud’s Suppression of the Seduction Theory" by Jeffrey Moussaieff Masson)
Fairbairn 4 – Basics of Fairbairn and Object Relation Psychology
In the previous article, I said that the most important reason why early relationship in a person affects a person's psyche so much is because the relationship has unconditional dependence…
Whole Holistic Rights, Responsibility, and Diet in Relation to All Sustainability
The commonality between the two starts with explanation of diet part, then the medical system, society, social engineering, then Unix/Linux philosophy. Starting with Diet: The evolutionary side of our survival…